Meet today’s hero, Charles

Meet today’s hero, Charles!  He has been a member of the United States Navy since 2008 and is currently serving on his second deployment.  His beautiful wife, Angel, is serving on the homefront, taking care of their daughter and waiting expectantly for their son to be born in just a few weeks.  This second deployment is just getting underway, so Charles will miss the birth of his son, and Angel will bravely deliver the baby and parent single handedly until Charles returns home in a few months.

Angel shares the following with us. “Charles has been in the Navy now since November 2008, and even though he is sacrificing so much, and leaving so much behind to fulfill his duty, I don’t think he would have it any other way. In just a few short months his step-daughter, his son, and I will be anxiously waiting on the pier to welcome him home.”

All of us at Military Missions Inc are proud to honor Charles and his family today.  We are so grateful that we have families willing to make sacrifices so that we can all continue to live in a free nation.  Please keep Charles, his family, and his unit in your thoughts and prayers.

So what’s in the care package?

A lot of people want to know what to send to our deployed troops in a care package. I don’t think there is one answer to that question.  For one thing, everyone has different tastes.  But let’s put that aside and think about it from the soldier’s perspective.

One of the first things I’ll point out is simply the fact that they aren’t all guys!  There are many women who have stepped up to serve our nation.  They want and need many of the same items we would send our male soldiers, but let’s not forget that we could throw a few other thing in their box that would be appreciated.

Back when I first started sending boxes to my son, he spent most of his first deployment living outside the wire, where his truck was his home.  Back then, he wanted baby wipes as showers were a rare occurrence, happening only when his platoon returned to base in between missions.  Other requests included batteries, snacks, and hot sauce to cover up the taste of the MRE’s on which they survived.  Paperback books were a popular item, too.  My son actually decided he liked to read during his first deployment.  When you are stuck in the middle of a desert for 7 months, what else is there to do in between missions?

During the second deployment, the Marines in his unit were living in trailers on base.  They were outside the wire all day, but they did report back to base at the end of each shift.  Showering was actually a daily option, so baby wipes weren’t as desired as they had been the first time around.  Now that they had access to electricity, he and his buddies requested dvd’s and watched movies during down time.

A remote area was the place my son called home during the third deployment.  The Marines found themselves eating one kind of meat over and over, day in and day out.   This time they wanted hot sauce, barbecue sauce, and any other kind of sauce I could find. Homemade chocolate chip cookies were also a very big hit, in fact, the favorite item sent during deployment number three. The weirdest thing I ever heard him say was, “Hey, Mom, could you stop sending so much junk food?  We just want healthy stuff.”

Over the past seven years, Military Missions has supported troops in many countries, with Iraq and Afghanistan being the most common areas to receive our packages.  It really depends on where our troops are stationed as to what they need.  There are countless places to be deployed.  Some have access to microwaves.  Others do not.  Some eat surf and turf every Sunday.  Others eat MRE’s during their entire deployment.  Some will cook Ramen noodles on the hood of their truck because they can actually do that in the desert heat.  Others trudge through 2 feet of snow up and down the side of a mountain just to get their deliveries because the roads are impassible.

So what should be sent?  Just ask any soldier or Marine.  There are a few answers that we hear quite often such as socks and powdered drink mix, but the most common answer by far is simply, “We like anything!”  It’s really the thought that counts.

I’m sure it is greatly appreciated when they receive items on their wish list, but unless your box is filled with items completely inappropriate for the soldier’s situation, he is going to be grateful you remembered he was fighting for our freedoms. The items in your box will be used and enjoyed, but the idea that you cared enough to take a few moments to send a package and write a note of encouragement is what will stick in the hearts and minds of our troops.

So what are you waiting for?  Get that box out and fill it up with goodies.  Need some ideas? Click here to see our list of care package suggestions.

Don’t have time to shop? You can help us send the boxes we are currently packing. We can’t send the boxes without the funds to pay for shipping.  Click here to help us today!

A Mother’s Letter of Thanks

We often get requests to send care packages out to our deployed troops. Many of our requests come from a spouse or a parent. Some requests come from friends and co-workers, and we often get requests right from our troops.  Many will find our website and submit the name of a friend in their unit who is not receiving any mail.

Requests are often accompanied with information about the soldier, and we have the privilege of knowing a little bit about the one who will receive our box.   We send boxes out on a year round basis, so for the year “our soldier” is deployed, we might send him or her several boxes.  Each time we write out the customs form, type up the label, email the family member who referred him to get updates on his status, take a look at his photo on our “Hero Wall”, and pray for his safety, we get more attached to him and his buddies who are fighting for our freedom.

We will never be the biggest nonprofit out there.  If we were, we wouldn’t be able to keep it personal.  We don’t just have a list of names that get slapped on the top of a box every month.  We have a commitment to take care of our soldiers who are deployed in harm’s way, and we have a commitment to support their families who anxiously wait on this side of deployment.  Receiving letters such as this one tell us we must be making a difference.

My son’s unit is doing very well in Afghanistan. He tells me they are all enjoying all the packages they have been getting.  I have been sending many items as well and have adopted a young lady in the group who has not gotten packages (they did not tell me until three weeks ago).

I did get a call a few weeks or so back asking me “Mom what have you done?”  They had gotten several packages and were covered in goodies. He tells me how much they just love the cards and letters. My son has been passing on items their unit does not need to the Chaplain to redistribute so absolutely nothing goes to waste. 

His deployment will end the first week in January, so I am hoping that they will have a supported holiday while they are away.  Due to the job for some reason they are not able to get photos out like many units can.  I don’t know if you are doing your heroes wall but if so I have attached one of his boot camp photos and the only photo to come out of the FOB for my sons field promotion. As a mom they all look so tired and mine looks so skinny!

Everything aside, I want  you to know that your help is so much appreciated and gave me such peace, as a mother. I am disabled and overall my son tends to be what I consider more helpful to me than I am to him. I worried so much that I would not be able to bear the financial strain of the shipments myself, as you well know it can be pricey. Knowing there are groups like yours to take him under your wing set my mind at ease during uncertainty. I knew thanks to your group my child,  my son, my Marine, My Hero would not go without during such a stressful time because of my limitations. I am finding that with his help I am able to keep this up and he has had me add his comrade.  My only concern as a mother of course is for morale during Christmas.

Once he is home I would like to pay back for another soldier to be able to have the benefit of your support, will you please tell me how I can do this? Thank you more than mortal words can say.

Proud Mother of CPL. B

Texas

 

Please Don’t Leave Me Homeless

If you live in the Central Kentucky area, there is a very unique opportunity for you to attend an event and show your support for our homeless Veterans tonight.  An Evening of Giving Thanks to our Veterans will be held at the Lexington Opera House. Admission is free.

There is a good chance you don’t know anyone personally who is homeless, but these homeless Veterans have served our nation on your behalf and mine.  It may be difficult for you to understand why so many of our veterans are returning from military service only to find themselves living on the streets, but I’ve met many who have ended up without homes, and given their circumstances, it is easy to see why the numbers of homeless Veterans is growing every day.

From 5:00 pm until 8:00 pm, in the lobby of the Opera House, you can view the art exhibit, Please Don’t Leave Me Homeless.  The artwork has been created by Homeless Veterans of Lexington.  Come and meet the artists, hear their stories, and honor their service to our great nation.

Beginning at 8:00 pm, the original, acclaimed play, Please Don’t Call me Homeless….I Don’t Call You Homed, will be performed by men and women who have been homeless in Lexington.  Come and learn about the reality of what life is like for our Veterans who call the streets of Lexington home.

Appalachian Home holiday wreaths will be available to order. These gifts will brighten your home for the holiday and give a home to homeless Veterans.

This event is sponsored by the Catholic Action Center, Central KY Council for Peace and Justice, Christian Appalachian Project’s Appalachian Home, Divine Providence, Inc.’s Lexington Homeless Veteran’s Program, and Friends of Ending Homelessness for Veterans in our Community.

This is a rare opportunity we have here in Lexington to get to know these heroes.  It’s by the grace of God that you and I have a roof over our heads.  Let’s give thanks for what we have, and let’s come out and support this event. We can help our homeless Veterans to get back on their feet.  I think it is the least we can do after all they have done for us.

A Seat of Honor: Giving Thanks for our Military

As we approach the Thanksgiving holiday, most of us will stop and count our blessings.  Many of us will count living in the United States of America and all the freedoms that come with our citizenship as one of our biggest blessings, but most of us will not feel the sacrifices made for that blessing on a personal level.

For those who have a loved one serving, there will be an empty seat at the table. There will be a missing smile and a void that no one can replace while their loved one is deployed.

For many families, the smile and presence of their hero will be only a memory because their loved one gave their life so that we can continue to live in a free nation and celebrate this annual holiday.

As we pause to give thanks for all of our blessings, let’s set an extra place at our tables this year in honor of those who serve.

Let’s give that place setting the seat of honor at the head of our tables.

Let’s remember that while we are gathered with family and friends, there are many who stand watch over us and our families and ensure that we can continue to celebrate our freedoms and our blessings each year.

We also ask that you consider showing your gratitude by making a donation to ensure that each of the deployed troops on our list can receive a package for Christmas.

Our staff at Military Missions Inc is made up completely of volunteers.  No one gets paid, so every dime of your donation goes to ensure a package gets into the hands of each hero on our list.

You can donate right from our website via Google Checkout or Paypal. You can also mail us a check, or you can stop by our office and make a cash donation.

Here are a few of the faces of those who have received our packages.

Thank you for your continued support of our troops through Military Missions Inc. It is our honor to be able to partner with you in this way.

On behalf of Military Missions Inc., we want to thank each one who is currently serving, and all who have worn the uniform in the past.  We also want to thank the families who serve here on the homefront.

We are forever grateful for your service and your sacrifice.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Secondary PTSD discussed on VOW Talk Radio

Have you heard of Secondary PTSD?  If you haven’t, it’s time that you did. If your Veteran has PTSD, there is a good chance that you may develop Secondary PTSD.  You may already have symptoms and not even realize that you do.  Secondary PTSD can affect spouses, children, parents, and any other significant person involved in the lives of our nation’s combat veterans.

Click here to listen to our latest VOW Talk Radio show airing tonight at 9:00 pm. Shawn Gourley, author of The War at Home: One Family’s Fight Against PTSD, talks about her book and how Secondary PTSD has affected her family. During the interview, VOW Radio hostess, Beth Pennington, will also be sharing about her own battle with Secondary PTSD.  If you think this is something that can only happen to someone else, you are wrong.

Click here to read more.

 

Unsung Heroes – Family Style!

If you have spent any time with us at Military Missions Inc, there is a good chance you have met and worked with the Porter family.  This special family has been such a blessing to all of us at Military Missions.  A couple of years ago, Patricia came in looking for volunteer opportunities, and she was specifically looking for opportunities which could include her three boys. Needless to say, we put them right to work.

Luke, Mark, and Anthony are full of positive energy and they are quick to get a job done. They don’t let their youth keep them from helping out with just about any task we have that needs to be completed.  Whether it’s sorting donations, packing boxes, making cards for the troops, helping veterans, or even recruiting people to make a donation at our booths, these boys are all about supporting the troops and our veterans and they are serious about their volunteer job!

If you haven’t been to our office, you may have seen the Porter clan helping us out around town. They’ve been spotted at both Sam’s locations, Walmart, the VA hospital, and most recently at the YMCA.  The boys are some of our best volunteer recruiters, and I think it is safe to say that they are definitely the cutest!

Even when they are busy with lots of other commitments, like school, sports, and church, they still find time to give a few minutes of each day to supporting our troops.  Each of the boys finds some time each day to sit down and spend a few minutes writing a card or letter to be included in our care packages. Last year they were able to add many Christmas cards to those which were sent out in our packages and they are doing so again this year.  They already have quite a few letters and cards ready to go, and they still have the entire month of November in which they will be making a few more cards each day.

It’s easy to see why the troops are so grateful for our packages. When the boxes arrive in Afghanistan and other faraway places, packed with TLC by special volunteers such as Luke, Mark, and Anthony, it’s no wonder the packages put a smile on the faces of those who receive them.

We are so grateful that Patricia and Dave are determined to teach their children the value of serving and volunteerism and we are so thankful that they have chosen to be a part of our Military Missions family.

There are many opportunities available during the year in which you can get involved. We hope you will consider supporting our troops and becoming a part of our Military Missions family, too!

 

Spotlight: Unsung Heroes

Most of us typically think of unsung heroes as being few and far between, but here at Military Missions Inc, we come across these heroes all the time. Just about every time the door swings open someone steps in ready to push up their sleeves and work.  Our office is like a magnet drawing patriots in the door who love and support our great nation.

These patriots are average American citizens who desire to make a difference in the lives of our troops, our veterans, and our military families.  They understand the importance of encouraging those who wear the uniform. They want to make a difference because they know it will help to ensure that our nation will be here for generations to come.

Most of these unsung heroes would never describe themselves as such. They view what they do as minimal, but I’m here to tell you that each one of them is making a big difference and their efforts are anything but small.

With so many incredible people walking through the door to do their part to support our troops and veterans, we have decided that their efforts should no longer be a well kept secret. We will be sharing the stories of our unsung heroes right here on our website beginning later this week. If you don’t see the stories on the main page of our website you can read them by clicking here.

Remember, we can all serve our nation and we don’t have to wear a uniform to get the job done.  We often work with groups and individuals who have innovative ideas that support our troops and veterans.  If you have a project idea, don’t keep it to yourself.  Contact us and we will help you find a way to make your dream come true.  You might just belong in our group of unsung heroes yourself.

While Daddy is Deployed: Military Family Support

Here at Military Missions Inc, we are known for our efforts to send out care packages to our deployed troops.  Mailing boxes of encouragement is a big part of what we do, but did you know that we also offer support for our military families here on the home front?

Our Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, and Marines will often tell us that they feel it is harder on their families than it is on them. While deployed, they have a job to do. They know where they are at all times and they know what needs to be done, meanwhile, their family members are at home, knowing nothing about where their hero is located or what he or she may be doing.

Not knowing what is going on can be extremely stressful, especially when this will be the norm for several months or even a year. Trying to keep the home running smoothly while taking care of children, and working a job can be difficult for anyone, but for the spouse of one who is deployed it is far more challenging.

Even when the deployment is over, a lot of changes take place when the soldier returns home and our military families need support and encouragement during this time of adjustment.

Spouses and children aren’t the only ones who need support.  For each one who serves, there is a parent, a sibling, a cousin, a friend, and a neighbor waiting on the safe return of their hero. Everyone in that soldier’s circle of influence needs a community of people who understand.

Military Missions works to provide support for our military families. We have a community of people who understand what it is like to live on this side of deployment and many of us have learned to live with the new normal that awaits each of us after our hero returns home.  Join one of our support groups or get involved in one of the many activities we have going on year round.

Get support when you need it. Give support when others need you.

Wonder if you are making a difference?

Do you ever wonder if you are making a difference in the lives of our military? If you are one of the many volunteers who help us at Military Missions, you may wonder what happens once we tape the box closed and send it on its way out the door.  It is emails, letters and messages like this one, which we received yesterday, that let us know we are making a difference.

Whether you are volunteering at the office, packing boxes at home, dropping off donations, or donating funds for shipping costs, you ARE making a difference.  It takes all of us doing our part and working together to make our efforts at Military Missions a success.  How do we spell success?  With the smile on the face of the soldier who is handed that Military Missions care package with his name on it.

Thank you to all who are working so hard to make our dreams a reality.  Keep checking back as we will be posting letters and thanks from our troops and will be highlighting some of the unsung heroes here at Military Missions who are making a big difference overseas from right here at home.