Bless Those Who Protect Us

KSP funeral 2Influence and solidarity were demonstrated in their truest and fullest form the past couple days as one of our own Kentucky State Troopers was laid to rest. Trooper Eric Chrisman’s end of watch came 6/23/2015 and he was laid to rest Monday, June 29, 2015. This young man was born and raised in Lawrenceburg, KY and I had the pleasure of knowing him and his family.

Although only 23 years old, Eric’s influence on the lives of those around him left a lasting, positive impact. Fond memories and love resound from his family, friends, KSP family, former co-workers, classmates, and even acquaintances. His influence was reflected in the hundreds of people that turned out to show their respects at his visitation & funeral service. Not only was there a sea of the “Thin Gray Line” on hand to see their brother off, there were representatives from law enforcement agencies from across the state and country on hand to pay their respects as well.

Being a member of the KSP family for the majority of my adult career (since I was about 19 years old) I am not unfamiliar with the solidarity exuded by the agency whenever a member of the agency is in need. They ban together and rally to show support, fulfill a need, or do whatever is necessary to take care of one of their own. However I am still in awe of what I saw unfold in the days leading up to and culminating at the service to memorialize, honor and say goodbye to Trooper Chrisman. To see so many come together, ensuring every detail was seen to, every need of the family was met, every piece and person was in place to orchestrate an exceptional farewell to an exceptional human being, who chose a life of service and sacrifice is one of the most profound examples of solidarity I have seen played out in real life in a very long time.

KSP funeralIt is a reminder to me that nothing is impossible for a people who are united with a common goal, purpose and love of something other than/greater than themselves. I say all of this as a reminder to us all of the importance of being unified to protect our country, our military, our families our values, and our freedoms. Let us not be so consumed by self and selfish ambition that we forget the sacrifice of so many that allow us to have and enjoy the very way of life we hold so dear. God bless the peacemakers, regardless of the type of uniform they wear or the agency they are employed by. Whether military or law enforcement, God bless and protect you. Thank you for your service and your sacrifice. Equally important to acknowledge is the family of those peacemakers. Thank you for supporting, loving, caring for and holding down the fort of those peacemakers. The part you play is vital as well. All each of you do will not be forgotten or taken for granted.

s/Faith Wells

 

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July 4th event at Saul Good Restaurant

saul goodSAUL GOOD RESTAURANT & PUB JOINS FORCES WITH MILITARY MISSIONS FOR A JULY 4TH FUNDRAISER TO HELP SHIP CARE PACKAGES TO DEPLOYED SOLDIERS

On July 4th, all Saul Good Restaurant & Pub locations in Lexington Ky will offer 1/2 price on all food as an incentive to generate donations for Military Missions, Inc.

Military Missions, Inc. is dedicated to providing care packages and support for soldiers deployed to Iraq, Afghanistan, and other locations. These care packages contain essential items (eye drops, foot powder, socks) and sundries (CD’s, snack food, books). The cost to fill each package, excluding donated items, exceeds $20. In addition, it averages around $10 to mail each package.

Last December, during Operation S.E.N.D. Christmas, Military Missions sent over 1,000 packages to deployed soldiers.  In addition, over 4,000 unit bags and boxes were shipped during the remainder of the year. Thousands of our troops are still deployed overseas and it’s important to let them know we have not forgotten them. Our military men and women sacrifice so much for us, we should dig deep into our hearts and pockets to show our appreciation for them.

“We are thrilled to be a part of Military Missions quest to encourage and thank our hometown heroes,” said Rob Perez, owner of Saul Good Restaurant & Pub.

Saul Good Restaurant & Pub is an American pub, which serves a wide variety of chef driven food, including hand tossed pizzas, gourmet burgers, farm fresh salads and features a chocolate bar. The restaurant will offer 1/2 price on all food items on July 4th, from noon to 7:00 pm. Donations to Military Missions will be encouraged.

Saul Good Restaurant & Pub now has 3 locations to serve the Lexington area:

Plaza at Fayette Mall, 3801 Mall Rd (859) 273-4663

Hamburg, 1808 Alysheba Way (859) 317-9200

and Downtown, 123 N. Broadway (859) 252-4663.

They can also be found on the web at www.saulgoodpub.com.

If you cannot visit a Saul Good location but would still like to help support our troops, please visit our donation page.

We All Face Challenges

Atop the mountainMy husband doesn’t really enjoy accolades and he’ll tell you that he doesn’t handle compliments very well, to which I respond, “Get over it, because in this family you’re going to get both!” :) This week my husband joined a group of 14 other combat veterans to participate in the Save a Warrior Project hosted here in Kentucky! For those of you who have not heard of this program, in a nutshell it is basically an awesome, tried & proven PTSD Detox program. I dropped my hubby off at the location Sunday and I won’t pick him back up until Friday. Communication during the week is limited, for good and understandable reasons. They have a lot of activities and things to accomplish within a short time and it is necessary to limit distraction and stay on task. I have been able to have a couple of short conversations with him the past couple of evenings, in which, he’s been able to share just a portion of what all he’s doing. Sometime in the future I hope to have the opportunity to share more specifics about the program in hopes it will benefit other warriors out there who may be struggling with PTSD. However for now, I mainly want to express how proud I am of not only my husband, but everyone (combat veteran, veteran spouse or family member) who is facing a fear, personal demons, challenging situation or stepping outside of their comfort zone in whatever form or fashion. Change is never easy. Making a bad situation better is challenging and let’s be honest, plain sucks sometimes. Letting go of the past, relearning a new normal, bettering ourselves, improving relationships with those we care about or developing the ability to reintegrate into and function with others in daily life takes guts.

We all face challenges (whether external or internal) that may seem overwhelming or even impossible, as though you’ll never be able to overcome them, change them or make things better. However today I want to encourage you that as long as you’re breathing, there is hope. If you are willing to try, then things can get better. Ignoring problems or pretending everything is fine won’t make it better or make the problems vanish. Honestly, it will make things worse. It’s sort of like ignoring a leg wound, allowing it to get infected, then being untreated will eventually lead to gangrene, loss of the leg and eventually death. Leaving an issue untreated is dangerous. Face it head on. Fear can’t stop you, only you can stop you. True courage doesn’t mean fear isn’t present, it means you do whatever it is/move forward in spite of the fear.

Admitting there is a problem, recognizing change needs to be made, getting help effecting that change….that’s NOT weakness, instead that is real strength and bravery. Change isn’t for sissies or the faint of heart! It takes some true intestinal fortitude to face a challenge/need to change head on.

My Mom was always encouraging and never short on praise for all my efforts and endeavors not only throughout my childhood, but even today she still tells me how proud she is of me and encourages me. Having that type of support gave me such confidence, because I knew that no matter what, win, lose or draw, my parents would love me and be there for me. Their love for me was not based upon my performance or even if I did what they wanted me to do…. they simply loved me. I share that to say this, I know now not everyone has a family, childhood or support system like that. There are countless adults struggling even now with insecurity and a failure mentality because they never experienced that type of unconditional love. They are still trying to earn approval and love from parents who only gave criticism or manipulation.

Facing your fears and stepping out of your comfort zone is not an easy thing to do and it is virtually impossible to do without help or some type of support system. I don’t care who you are or how tough you are, fear attacks every single person in some form or fashion and we all need someone in our corner, cheering us on, praying for us, encouraging us, being there for us. So I encourage you today, even if you don’t have a family or friend support system, there is a support system out there for you. If you are a veteran, or spouse or family member of a veteran, there are many groups, organizations and individuals who care. There are programs available to help in times of need or challenging situations. Reach out and let someone help you get through to the other side of whatever it is you’re facing.

s/Faith Wells (aka the proud wife of my own personal hero, LCPL Nick Wells)

Beer Tasting Fundraiser

Join the fun on Sunday, June 28, 2015 from 2:00-5:30pm 

BEER TASTING & MUSIC FUNDRAISER

Blue Stallion Brewing Co., 610 W 3rd St., Lexington KY

Presented by Thrivent Financial to support Military Missions

Blue Stallion Brewing Company specializes in authentic German lagers and British ales focusing on traditional brewing techniques and ingredients. They offer beers for craft beer enthusiasts as well as first time craft beer drinkers.

Food provided by Red State BBQ Food Truck.

10% of all proceeds will be donated to Military Missions to help pay for postage and supplies to send care packages to our soldiers overseas.

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CHOOSE TO LOVE

Heart LoveLove is a powerful force. Truly, the most powerful force on the planet. It has caused many to do foolish and crazy things, but many others to do heroic, self-less and life changing acts.

There are countless accounts of wartime heroes who save the life or lives of their comrades in arms. Putting their own life in danger to protect or save the life of another. What would cause someone to make such a sacrifice? At the core, love. Love of a brother they’ve been through thick and thin with, trained with, fought with, which forged a bond closer than blood ties or family. What causes the majority of those who enlist in military service to make that choice? In most cases, love of country and wanting to be a part of something greater and bigger than themselves.

The heart of a warrior/solider is a conundrum. It is strong, brave, hardened, fierce, bold, cunning, stoic, subservient, independent, defiant, kind, and last but definitely not least loving. Wow! That’s quite a mixture, but this mixture of qualities uniquely qualifies them to do and accomplish all that is expected of them in service to the United States military. During their service many have their hearts, minds and bodies broken by their experiences. They give all they have to give in service to their Country, keeping every promise and commitment they made. However, when they return home broken and battered many do not receive the care they need and deserve. The system put in place that promises to care for them does not live up to its commitment or promise.

Combat veterans are changed by what they experience. When they return home many times these changes are more than family and friends are prepared for and have a hard time handling/dealing with. Many veterans find themselves alone and spiraling deeper into their own personal hell. They may have survived the external war, but even after leaving the battlefield, the internal war raging within themselves continues. Add that to a system that requires them to navigate through hoops and a maze of red tape to obtain any sort of help, many veterans find themselves overwhelmed, depressed, and ostracized. Even those veterans who have people who care and support them struggle to find their place back in civilian life.

What can help? Love. Loving that veteran spouse or family member thru the most difficult times, sticking it out through the toughest of times, not giving up, being as much of a support system as possible. Volunteering with organizations that support veterans and their families. Raise awareness about the plight of veterans. Provide financial support to organizations that are working to help veterans discover a new normal and navigate civilian life. All those things are a form of showing love. Taking a moment to care about and do something to improve the well being of someone who has sacrificed so much is a powerful act of love that will make a difference in a life. Sometimes those whose actions are the most unlovable (mean, hateful & nasty) are the ones most in need of love. We must allow love to cause us to look past the actions and raging outside of the broken and into the heart of that person. Love can prompt us to action and can heal the brokenhearted.

In closing I want to interject that sometimes true love is tough… it’s being truthful and confrontational, standing up and not approving of self-destructive behavior and telling those we love things they don’t want to hear. Love is more than an emotion, it’s a choice. Today let’s chose to love.

~Faith

 

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The Power of ONE

Don't become wearyDuring challenging moments that discouragement and negativity whisper in my ear, “Why are you doing what you’re doing, it’s not making a difference or doing any good.” God brings this scripture to my mind….. “So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up.” (Galatians 6:9 NLT)

I realize this is a blog and not a Bible study, so no one get nervous :) This scripture is so pertinent, regardless of your creed, race or religion, to anyone who has or continues to do what I’ve coined, “the right things for the right reasons.” Everyone has a cause (whether it be a person, family, organization, whatever) they try to uphold, support, encourage, and do the right thing in, for and by. Let me elaborate a moment…. Do you work with someone who is just angry, has a nasty attitude and you’d rather take a beating than have to deal with; yet you always strive to be kind to that person, patient with them and not allow their sour mood/attitude to rub off on you? Do you have a organization or entity (like Military Missions, the VA Hospital, MADD, local animal shelter, a humanitarian aide organization, the list goes on and on) that you volunteer your time and/or contribute monetarily to? Do you have a boss or supervisor that is super critical, never acknowledging anything good you do, yet you always do your job to the best of your ability, in excellence? Those are just a few of the many examples of what I mean by doing the right things for the right reasons. We live in a world that the societal norm is generally an attitude of selfish, self-serving, what do I get out of it mentality. It’s a rarity in media to see a feel good, story in which someone has done a selfless act to help someone without having anything to gain from their actions. The news reports and statistics we read (and many times real life around us) are full of death, destruction, mayhem, and catastrophe. Sometimes in those things we support and work hard doing the right things for the right reasons, we may not always see an immediate cause and effect, seeming that our efforts are not even making a dent in the problem. It’s not easy to persevere and continually do what’s right. It can be challenging to keep our promise, be nice or provide support on those days we are tired and feel beat up and run down by life.

So, I want to remind and assure you today, YOU ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE!!!!!! What you’re doing, right where you are is changing / impacting / bettering a life. Here’s the cool thing, we don’t have to touch, help or make the difference in the lives of millions for it to count… we just have to make the difference in the life of ONE person. It’s great if we impact millions, but equally as great if we impact ONE. Kindness and positively effected change has a ripple effect, like a pebble in a pond. So even if you only impact ONE that one will impact someone, then that ONE will impact someone and it goes on. ONE person impacted Billy Graham and look at that ripple effect. On the battlefield, a Medic or Corpsman saves ONE life, but that life could’ve been your son, daughter, husband, wife or father. Tell me that ONE didn’t make a huge difference and was a big deal then.

I want to leave you with two quotes to ponder upon today….

#1) “Courage doesn’t always soar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying ‘I will try again tomorrow.’” -Mary Anne Radmacher

#2) “Stay the course, light a star, Change the world where’er you are.” -Richard Le Gallienne

 

s/Faith Wells

 

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